my thoughts ~ Compassion Sunday

For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me…” Matthew 25:35

I have learned that through child sponsorship the stories are changed on both sides of the relationship.

Builder and I have been Compassion sponsors for about 16 years, but in the fall of 2010, we made it a family thing and sponsored Lesbia Herlinda and Bryan Marcello.

Now our daughters write letters, draw pictures and fold origami to slip into envelopes each month to send to Lesbia and Bryan.

  We’ve spent time learning about Guatemala, had meals of the same limited ingredients Lesbia and Bryan might be eating for dinner. 

And we pray.  This is where I hear what it means to our daughters to be a part of this ministry with us.  When you hear your children pray, you get to hear what is on their hearts.  It is powerful to hear them say, “Please let Bryan have enough to eat tonight.”  “Please help Lesbia do well in school.”  “Please protect them from the gangs.”

Personally, I have a gained greater awareness of the particular dangers each of these children face in daily life and my prayers have become more specific and urgent.  The words I write in the letters are to extend hope and to tell each of these children how precious they are to God, and to me, a mother far away.

As you can see, the benefits of sponsorship through Compassion International are not one sided.  As we seek to share God’s love in with these children through $38 a month, prayer and letters, His transforming work continues in us and we are given the opportunity to grow in grace and understanding.

Alyza

Will you consider sponsoring a child today?

Magreth

The Beauty Book by Nancy Rue

The Beauty Book, of The Lily Series by Nancy Rue published by Thomas Nelson, 2012

“Secrets for looking great, inside and out.  Everywhere you turn – TV, magazines, celebrities, and even your friends = it seems everyone demands that you look a certain way to fit in.  But what if you aren’t “perfect” like the actress in your favorite show?  Or don’t want to look like everyone else?  What about true beauty, the kind God put inside of you?  Can you’re inside match the outside?  Can you get the God-confidence you need to be content with the person you are?”

As soon as this PINK book came out of the mail packaging my daughters were asking for it.  We live in a houseful of girls, none of which wear or decorate with pink, but do believe that the color pink means GIRL.  And this book is a cheerful read about all things preteen, middle school age girl.

The author uses a question and answer format, answering common questions that girls of the preteen, middle school ages have.  There are quizzes and activities that are fun and lighthearted, while also encouraging the reader to take a look at her own heart.  There is strong encouragement in this book to get to know oneself, thank God for the you-niquely way He has made each girl, and to seek to honor HIM in that uniqueness.

Now that I have quickly read the book and written the review, this pink, fun bundle of encouragement is being handed to my sweet daughters.  I believe the humor and truth presented in the book strikes a nice balance and that my daughters will be encouraged to look kindly and honestly at themselves and others during this awkward time of growing up.
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Praying for Unsponsored Children

Janeth has been SPONSORED!  There is a story to this, but not one to share here.  Please join me in thanking God for the work He is doing in hearts!

This week we are praying for Janeth Abel Jacob.  This precious little girl lives in Tanzania, in an AIDS affected area.  

  • Age: 6
  • Birthday: December 9, 2005
  • Gender: Female
  • Location: Tanzania
  • Center: TAG Nyakato Student Center
  • Child ID: TZ1310305
    • Child lives in an AIDS-affected area.  Our sweet Petal Rose would love to sponsor Janeth, as they have a “vital statistic” in common, but we just are not able right now.
  • We will be praying for this precious little girl, for a sponsor, for protection and good health, for the knowledge of Jesus’ love to come to her.
    If you are interested in sponsoring Janeth, you can do so by clicking here.

    Another Strong Nudge…book review

    Do you feel trapped in the machine of excess?  Jen Hatmaker was.  Her friends were.  And some might say that our culture is.  Jen once considered herself unmotivated by the lure of prosperity, but upon being called “rich” by an undeniably poor child, evidence to the contrary mounted, and a social experiment turned spiritual journey was born.  7 is the true story of how Jen took seven months, identified seven areas of excess, and made seven simple choices to fight back against the modern day diseases of greed, materialism and overindulgence.

    This book has been out for a while, and in the evangelical “mom” circles there has been plenty of reference to 7, an experimental mutiny against excess.  Jen Hatmaker suggests there is a tension in us, enjoying the abundance (excess) that we have been blessed with, and the reality that maybe what we’ve been given isn’t really all for “me”. 

    And I wholeheartedly nodded my head in such a way I risked whiplash.  The amount of money that my dear husband made last year, the amount that went right out the door.  Makes me shake my head.  Every drop we do let fall into a bucket of compassion, mission to help end extreme poverty or the pain of the widow down the road seems small compared to my appetite for a cup of coffee, chocolate, books, entertainment…and the odds & ends that fall into my basket at Target.  There doesn’t seem to be a balance, or evidence of a right desire to love my neighbor as myself.

    The overall message is one that is widely circulating as God seems to be at work waking up His American church.  We really don’t look a lot like the church of Acts, we don’t really look like our Jesus.  Jen Hatmaker writes with a humorous conversational style that is a bit like a spoonful of sugar to make the medicine go down… but in her humor there is plenty of truth to think on. And another strong nudge to act.  ACT.

    Waiting Child ~ Compassion International

    Orestes is no longer on the Compassion waiting children list!  I am hopeful that means he has been sponsored.  🙂
    This week we are praying for Orestes, from Indonesia.  He is 8 years old and has been waiting about 260 days for a sponsor.

    In his home, Orestes helps by caring for children and running errands. He lives with his father and his mother. His father is employed as a farmer and his mother maintains the home. There are 2 children in the family.

    Playing with cars and running are Orestes’s favorite activities. In primary school his performance is average and he also regularly attends church activities and Bible class.

    If you are interested in learning more about Orestes, or in sponsoring him through Compassion International, you can click here.

    Children in the Compassion sponsorship programs recieve an education, academic and in hygeine/health/nutrition, they recieve medical care and the gospel of Jesus Christ.  It is always my prayer that the light shined upon these children at the project sites will be carried home with them, and that light might shine on all who in their home.  I pray each of their families will come to know Jesus as their Saviour, and discover the hope that helps them step out of extreme poverty.

    Finding Our Way Home, A Fiction Review

    Finding Our Way Home by Charlene Ann Baumbich

    When principal ballerina Sasha Davis suffers a career-ending injury at age thirty-eight, she leaves her Boston-based dance company and retreats to the home of her youth in Minnesota.  Finding she cannot live alone, Sasha hires a live in assistant.

    The assistant is Evelyn Burt, as opposite Sasha as she could be, being a large young woman with a 9 ½ shoe size.  We soon find that each of the characters have wounds which they can help one another heal.  Starting out as Boss and Employee, they soon find themselves as dear friends.

    This story was rather slow in the beginning, the characters didn’t quite fully develop.  As the story continued there were sweet moments, but overall it lacked depth. Introducing premarital passion and marital intimacy was a topic that seemed very out of place in this story.

     The Christian message was very weak and vague.  I found the reference to “faith” and “grace” completely undeveloped and awkward in this story.  I was bothered by the fortune telling, talisman and magic represented in the story, as though these were messages from God.

    The front cover compares the story to those written by Jan Karon and I didn’t find the comparison true at all.  This is just not a book I can recommend.

    This book was provided to me by WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing in exchange for an honest review.

    Glory Hallelujah! 1000 gifts

    This past week so much time was spent out of our home, or occupied by online training that kept me from some of the normal rhythm of home.

    Home, that word brings so much joy and peace to my heart.  It wasn’t always so, but God has healed so much, forgiven much, changed much in my life.  He has given me a new heart, that seems to beat more strongly day by day.

    It is amazing to think, nearly 9 years ago I was in physical heart failure…and even more so, spiritual heart failure.  While the surgeon replaced a valve and stitched me back together, the LORD’s scalpel went even deeper.

    Looking back at my life used to bring shame, fear, pain.  Now most days a reminder of the days behind stir a wonder and joy within me.

    There is therefore now NO condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.  The old has passed away, the new has come.

    Glory Hallelujah!

    giving thanks with joy #926-946
    This community in which we live, filled with others on a similar journey as us, and always full of encouragement

    High school doesn’t look so daunting this morning
    Cheerful girl up an hour earlier than usual, practicing piano and reading
    Laughter as cousins fellowship, olders hide eggs, youngers find eggs
    Monopoly in the dining room
    Stories with a grand nephew
    Garden planning
    Sunshine
    Rich joyful sounds from the fingers of 3 different ladies, at various times during the day, on the piano
      Beautiful red tulips on the corner
    Sunshine after rain
    Blue clear skies, no pollen in the air
      Teaching opportunities
    Good books
    Sweet daughters sewing buttons
    Lunch with precious daughter
    Snuggles with darling daughter
    The opportunity to share with others a burden of my heart ~ child trafficking