21 Days to a More Disciplined Life ~ Building a Life of Integrity

 


This disciplinary habit is not just about your own personal habits; this goes much further and deeper.  When you’re a woman who can be counted on … you are building a reputation of integrity.”

Crystal Paine, aka Money Saving Mom, has just released a new ebook, 21 Days to a More Disciplined Life.   This ebook was built upon the series that Crystal Paine wrote on her blog  a while back, but with plenty of fresh material and encouragement.

12 Days to a More Disciplined Life is divided into 21 daily doses of encouragement, inspiration and pracitical application.  The encouragement to plan and follow through on a mega project is broken down and included in each day’s reading.  There are printables at the end of the ebook; Mega Project Master To-Do List, Motivational Book List, and the Good Habits/Bad Habits List.

My days, like yours, are full and even finding the space to take a quick read through an ebook might be challenging.  I found that space during one of my daughter’s recent visits to the orthodontist.

The encouragement I recieved from reading the ebook refreshed me tremendously during that time in the waiting room.  Of course a Mega Project list was promptly made, even though I know that with having my hubby home this week, the project will most likely not be started until next week.  Even so, know what?  Making that plan was moving in the right direction – even though beginning isn’t today…it’s planned, it’s on the schedule.

As Crystal says “moving in the right direction – even at a microscopic rate – is always faster than standing still.”  My mega project is one that has been completely ignored, believing a remodel of that area was soon.  It isn’t, and now the area will be addressed and dealt with as it is.

But this isn’t really what I am taking away from the message in this ebook.  The idea that a more discipline life makes me a better steward of my life.  My life, the one I have been given to live.  To begin to live pursuing discipline, planning what to do, doing it and becoming a woman of integrity.  A woman who is blessed to be living this live, and blessing my husband and children as they reap the harvest of my own discipline.

This ebook is available for just .99 until Friday, October 26.  Buy this ebook, read it and be encouraged.
 
Just Do It. 

This ebook review include affliate links from which I may recieve a percentage of the purchase price, if bought through these links.  If you do, thank you for contributing to our family mission trip!

Clean, and White! A Product Review & Giveaway

Purex Plus OXI, a new stain-fighting liquid laundry detergent arrived on my front step last week.  It’s always fun to open a box from purex insiders and this time was no different.

Right away I knew what I want to try out this new stain-fighting detergent ~ our karate uniforms.  Our kiddos don’t always go straight from the house to the van to the dojo, or vice versa and those once crisp white uniforms simply are not crisp and sparkling white anymore.  They are a little dull and stained.

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The results of this new laundry detergent on our karate uniforms?  Brighter white, and those older stains from young trainees playing outside in their gees…still there, but faded.

As the week continued, I noticed other brighter whites without using bleach, and that is something that I like, esp with my children all doing their own laundry now!

So would you like to try Purex Plus OXI?  We have 3 free product coupons to giveaway this week.

For one entry each please:

*Leave a comment and tell me what you would like to freshen up with Purex Plus OXI.

*Share this giveaway on Facebook and comment here to tell me that you did

*Check out the Purex plus Oxi Sweepstakes to see if you’d like to enter to win and comment here to tell me that you did.

 
This Giveaway is open until 10am (MST) Tuesday, October 30
   We’ll post the winner of the drawing on Wednesday morning, October 31.
 
This laundry detergent was given to me in exchange for an honest review by Purex, through Purex Insiders.

linking up with HipHomeSchoolMoms and Money Saving Mom

This Moment

{this moment} – A Friday ritual. A single photo, or two – few words – capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.
If you’re inspired to do the same, visit Amanda and add your “moment.

autumn letters this October writing week

Paper nesting dolls for Christmas packages

This month our sponsorship letter writing took longer than usual, as we prepared our Autumn themed October letters and tidbits AND simple Christmas gifts to be sent to our sponsored kids.  It’s been a sweet time of girls and paper and glue and prayers, truly a family ministry.

Another Mail Call…from Tanzania

This sweet letter from Lucia arrived today…

Dear Benjamin and Michelle,

Praise the Lord Jesus!  Lucia greets you so much, she says that she thanks so much for your great love for sending gift to her as she managed to get her basic needs for education, good medical treatment including religious training (Bible studies).  Lucia says thanks so much dear for your good heart full of love.  God bless you abundantly.

Lucia says that she like the game called football and ball games.  She asks how about you, do you also play?  She says that you are of great value to her.

Be blessed richly ~ Amen

signed  Kalimby

 

these words…

compassion means going directly to those people and places where suffering is most acute and building a home there,”
katie, quoting Nouwen
 
this words have me thinking right now ~ I’ve no words to answer while I ponder the depth and layers of this quote,

As I read this book after posting yesterday, I came across these words

“It can be easy to confuse a calling to a people or a place as more important than a calling to intern at a radio station for the summer or babysit the kids down the street.  Is Christ not persent everywhere?  Can he not work in our midst.” ~ Emily Freeman

and a quieting came over me. 

Each is called by a very personal Savior to walk out the life He has purposed.  Katie is called to the very hard, quite big, far away work Jesus purposed for her.  I am called to the work here, parenting, teaching, sharing the Gospel in my community, sponsoring children in far away places I may never visit.  May I remember to be more than content in where I’ve been placed, in awe that I’ve been given these opportunities.

the graces that have been added line up on line day by day

 
 
through 1247
 
Peaches in the freezer, apple sauce & apple butter & pie filling in jars in the cabinets
Squash to freeze
Tomatoes to sauce
  Laughter in the rain
2 days of rain
Catching up with a friend
And reminding each other of truth
The splendor of fall color decorating our city
A new member of our international family
Time to sew
 Lunch with daughters, to celebrate, to listen
Pointe shoes and delighted smiles
 Fleece blankets to add to the beds during cool early mornings
Elder women in the church taking interest in the younger families
Enthusiastic young adult missionaries
 Sweet older girls, showing my girls a better way
The scent of fresh picked celery
Church community coming along side as we raise these daughters
green tomatoes
Christmas cards signed in green and red and blue
free Saturday afternoons
shades of gold shivering in the wind

This Moment

{this moment} – A Friday ritual. A single photo – capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.

 
 
en pointe
 
now living the dream
 
 
 
 
linking up with Amanda

Some Joy from the Mailbox!

This week we also recieved a letter from Rickson!

 
 
“Dear Benjamin and Michelle,
 
Rickson greets you in Jesus name.  He says Praise the Lord Jesus.  He says Thank you for your sponsorship becuase it has helped in may ways, like paying the school fees and many others.  He says he is the last born in their family.  They also love each other so much.  he is doing well at school but at the moment is in a vacation.  While in vacation, he helps his parents with some work and also he study to get prepared for the exams on September.  He is doing well at the center, they are taught the bible.  The verse that he likes in the Bible is Isaiah 59:2 “But your iniquities have made a separation between you and your God, and your sins have hid his face from you.”
 
He asks which color and food do you like?  He prays blessings for you.  May God be with you.  He asks you to pray for him in his studies and for his family in general.  He says bye, May God bless you.”
 
signed Rickson by a helper
 
This letter brought joyful laughter to us, in his picture I see the potential of a smart, spunky little guy, and in this letter I see a much loved baby of the family, a family who practices the giving of thanks.
 
 
Are you interested in sponsoring a child through Compassion International?  It is so much more than the $38 a month can purchase.  It is the opportunity to speak life and hope into a child, and to recieve a little joy as well.
 
 


linking with Michelle

1st Letter from Priti!

 
 

linking with Michelle

 
 

These letters are so exciting to recieve.  The afternoon that I opened this one, a line of sweet ladies were circled around me, waiting for their turn to read.

This letter though, was difficult to read and process.  Here we are dealing with some significant home repairs needed (main sewer line repairs), but we have resources to meet that need.  We have a Builder Man who has good work, who has a bounty of creative knowledge and skill to tackle this repair.  And honestly, we have more than enough.

Anyway, for the letter.

 

“The meaning of Priti is Love.  She loves to take care of her younger brother and sister.  Priti’s mother does not know how to read and write.  She goes to forest to collect wood to cook the food.  Now is rainy season in Miraj.  Their house is made of mud, cow dung and bamboos with tiles on the house.  The tiles leak so there is water in the house in rainy season.  Kumar is the father of the house, landless marginal labour.  He finds it difficult to send chidren to school and buy school uniforms and school supply.  Priti says I Love You and write to me a letter.”

Can you imagine what happens to a mud, cowdung, bamboo house in the rainy season? 

It is a delight to have a letter from Priti.  It truly is. 

My heart is grieved to know the circumstances of her life.  Truly.

But this is why we do what we do with some of our more than enough.

Will you, please, consider sponsoring one of the least of these? 
 
 
Visit Compassion and sponsor a child like Yeshaswini .

 Share hope with a child, with a whole family for $38 a month?
 

 

introduction to pointe work, by Mae

Dear Marme,

Pointe work is an extremely fascinating subject. Don’t you think? There are many different interesting aspects to it. Because of the nature of standing on the tips of one’s toes, there are occasional injuries to try to prevent and care for. Obviously, the history of pointe work is also very important because it can supply a dancer with a greater understanding of pointe. While, the pointe shoe is possibly the most important, except for the foot itself, to understand and know about it is also the easiest to learn about. Pointe is interesting.

The foot is a complex structure which is made of 26 bones. They are joined by many ligaments and tendons. While Ligaments join bone to bone, tendons join bone to muscle. The Achilles tendon connects the calcaneus, which is also known as the heel bone, to the calf muscle while the talus, which is also known as the ankle bone, transfers weight from the tibia to the calcaneus. The bones in the toes are called the phalanges. There are three phalanges in each toe, except for the big toe, which only has two. There are four tendons on each side of the foot. The outer ligaments are more easily injured than the inner ones because it is easier to sickle the foot than to bend it outwards. The foot is very complicated.

Injuries are very easy to get in pointe work, but do not have to be a problem for dancers. One of the most important elements to preventing injuries is making sure that one’s pointe shoe fits well, an improperly fitting shoe, whether too large or too small can cause many injuries that could easily have been prevented. Some injuries though, can happen even if your shoe fits perfectly. Blisters are caused when one’s foot rubs against the inside of the shoe and causes friction. A couple of ways to prevent blisters, besides making sure one’s shoe fits well is to sprinkle powder inside the shoe, which will absorb moisture and cut down on friction and to wrap the problem toes with tape To care for an unpopped blister filled with clear fluid one should sterilize the blister and the skin around it with alcohol and a sewing needle with alcohol or flame, poke the blister around the edge several times and then gently squeeze the fluid out. When at home, the blister should be left open to the air to heal, but when, outside or leaving the house it should be protected by a band aid. Injuries are common in pointe work, but not unavoidable.

The history of ballet is also very interesting. The first known ballet was commissioned by Catherine De Medicis in 1581 and the first pointe ballet was La Sylphide in 1832. Interestingly, there have been many key women to ballet by the name Marie. Marie Camargo introduced the entrechat and to display her quickly moving feet she shortened the skirts that women wore when dancing. She also invented tights and used a flatter shoe so that she had a better platform for her jumps. Marie Taglioni was a famous ballerina who performed in La Sylphide. Interestingly her father, who was also her teacher and choreographer, thought that her arms were too long, because of this he invented the idea of rounded arms to shorten the look of her arms. In the 1700s a man named Charles Didelot invented a flying machine which, through a system of wires and pulleys, allowed a ballerina to stand briefly on her pointes before being lifted into the air.  Because of the emphatic reception, this invention led choreographers to search for other ways for their stars to dance en pointe. At first, the pointe shoes were only narrow tubes of satin with no box that were heavily darned at the tips to give minimal support. As pointe shoes evolved, they became more supportive. In the 1900s a showbiz approach to pointe work became increasingly popular and dancers wore shoes with steel shanks to allow them to perform incredible feats en pointe. Ballet’s history is very fascinating.

The pointe shoe itself is merely supporting the foot. The shoe must be strong and yet supple enough for the foot to be able to feel the floor and have contact with it. It is important to understand the anatomy of the pointe shoe so one can communicate well when at a fitting and when trying to fix a problem with the shoe. The shank of the shoe is an inner sole, which is made of a very tough material, such as hard leather, supports the arch of the foot. The box is the stiffened part at the end of the pointe shoe and is made of many layers of muslin and burlap soaked in paste. The tip of the box, where the ballerina stands when en pointe, must be perfectly flat so that she has a stable platform on which to stand. The top of the box is called the vamp. The sides, where it is softer to allow the foot to roll through demi-pointe, are called the wings. Underneath the box there are the pleats or feathers which must be flat enough that they don’t cause the feet to lose contact with the floor. Ribbons on the pointe shoe are sewn right above the arch so that they pull the shoe up from the arch so that the heel does not slip off of the foot. The pointe shoe is a very important element in supporting the feet. 

Pointe work is a very large part of ballet and there are many essential elements to it. The historyis rich and interesting. The anatomy of the pointe shoe is also important for good communication. While history and the anatomy of the pointe shoe are both very important the most important part is to understand the foot itself and preventing injuries. If one does not have a good understanding of the anatomy of the foot and how to take care of any injuries it might get before they become serious, the foot can become very painful and it can take a long time to heal properly. Pointe work is very exciting and important to ballet.

with Caitlin Hoffman at the Ballerina Boutique

 

Love,

Mae